The Comfort Zone

I lovingly had to remind a friend of mine recently that he wasn’t going to find the woman of his dreams – in his apartment. Obvious? Not always. Look, I get it, dating can be scary. I know, I’ve been there. It’s not for the weak of heart, and what …

Field of (Dating) Dreams

The dating process can be a frustrating one. We all are coming to this dating adventure with different back stories, values, beliefs, and goals. It can make for a serious hot mess when you are connecting with others that just aren’t on the same page as you, or let’s face …

Say What You Mean…

straight·for·ward adjective uncomplicated and easy to do or understand. Synonyms: uncomplicated, simple, easy, effortless, painless. (of a person) honest and frank. “a straightforward young man”   Say what you mean, and do what you say. Things have become much too complicated as of late in the world of relationships and …

kindness is sexy

Kindness is sexy. Oh ya, it is! Being positive in the face of negativity, generosity of spirit, the desire to make others feel good. That’s damn sexy. Smiling deposits of thoughtfulness, you will make them SWOON. You, a mesmerizing magnet of kindness, attracting others like a moth to your gorgeous …

#gamechanger

#gamechanger ~ an action or change in behavior that creates positive results.

CONFIDENCE ROCKS

Honestly, everything begins with us. The who we are, and how we see ourselves effects how we interact with everything around us. Think about it, when you meet someone for the first time, you behave in a way that is reflective of your own self opinion, against what yours is …

The Disney Connection

Have you ever watched the scene in Bambi, when Thumper, Bambi, and Flower are walking through the forest, and slowly each one of them gets seduced off the trail by a very long lashed female counter part? I love that scene, and I am a big fan of the word …

It’s A Choice

I was chatting with a friend in NYC the other day and he was telling me that many of the women he has met say that New York is impossible to date in, and that there are no good men. My response was this, that’s a dating mentality, not a …